Erica Barton | Charlotte, NC Trauma & Anxiety Specialist on Instagram: "When kids grow up in the same unsafe environment, they don’t experience it the same way. Each nervous system chooses a different strategy to stay safe. One child becomes the fixer. They move into fight/fawn. They scan the room, manage emotions, smooth things over, and try to prevent explosions before they happen. Control becomes safety. If they can help enough, fix enough, or be “good” enough, maybe the chaos will stop. As a